Explain what to expect
Children often cope better when they know what to expect at an appropriate level. Avoid making the assessment sound like an exam. You might say: 'We are going to meet someone who wants to understand more about you, including things you enjoy and things you sometimes find difficult.'
Be honest
Do not promise there will be nothing difficult. Explain that it is okay not to know an answer and okay to say when something feels difficult.
Do not rehearse answers
There is no need to coach your child or teach the 'right' response. The team needs to understand your child as they are.
Bring comfort where appropriate
If your child benefits from knowing plans in advance or having something familiar available, consider this when preparing for the appointment.
This article is general educational information and does not replace individual medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to a qualified healthcare professional. In an emergency call 999, or NHS 111 for urgent advice.
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