Words matter
If children repeatedly hear only what they cannot do, they may begin to see themselves through that lens.
Notice genuine strengths
Avoid replacing negative stereotypes with unrealistic positive ones. Recognise the individual child in front of you. Their strengths might include knowledge, care, humour, creativity, determination, observation, honesty or something entirely different.
Help them advocate for themselves
As children get older, phrases such as 'I need a break', 'It is too noisy', 'I do not understand' or 'I need more time' can help them communicate their needs.
Confidence grows from being understood, respected and increasingly able to understand yourself.
This article is general educational information and does not replace individual medical advice. If you are worried about your child, speak to a qualified healthcare professional. In an emergency call 999, or NHS 111 for urgent advice.
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